Friday, 16 January 2015

4 CONDITIONS THAT YOU MUST NOT EXPRESS LOVE!



1. NEVER EXPRESS LOVE TO ANYBODY THAT IS
NOT AVAILABLE!
When you are in love with someone who is in
love with someone else, accept the reality of
your loss and move on.
Never attempt to "steal"
somebody else's patner, it makes you a thief;
watch out for karma(this is the main reason for
broken marriages) and worse Still, "A curse will
rest in the house of a thief...it will remain in
their houses and leave them in ruins"(Zech 5:4).
2. NEVER EXPRESS LOVE TO SOMEONE YOU HAVE
NOT KNOWN WELL!
First of all, how can you "fall in love" with
somone you just met? "Love at first sight" is a
hoax!! YOU CANNOT DEFINE LOVE OUTSIDE
KNOWLEDGE
- Knowledge is a constituent of love; the more
you know a person, the more you're empowered
to love.
- There are several sides to a person and it takes
time to know a person as TIME IS THE ULTIMATE
REVEALER OF ALL INTENTIONS!
- LOVE IS PATIENT(1 Cor 13:4)...You can't build a
mansion in a day!
- IT TAKES TIME TO BUILD LOVE AND TRUST
- Relationships that work seldom start as
friendship...MOST MARRIAGES BREAK UP TODAY
BECAUSE PEOPLE RUSH TO BE BED-MATES
BEFORE THEY ARE SOUL-MATES.
3. NEVER EXPRESS LOVE TO SOMEONE WHO JUST
BROKE A RELATIONSHIP!
Before you start a new relationship, you must be
convinced beyond all reasonable doubt, the
factors that led to the break-up of the previous
one.
If you've not receieved the wisdom of the past,
you're not ready for the future.
- Beware of a guy/lady who lays all the blame on
his/her ex...they are cheats...there are at least 2
sides to everything. IF YOU ARE NOT CLEAR AS
TO HOW YOU CONTRIBUTED TO THE BREAK-UP
OF YOUR PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP; IF I SETTLE
FOR YOU, YOU WILL BREAK ME!
- Ask him/her "WHERE ARE YOU COMING FROM?"
as WE ALL HAVE A PAST!
4. YOU SHOULD NOT EXPRESS LOVE WHEN YOU
KNOW YOU'RE NOT READY!
We can't deceive ourselves; we know when we're
not ready! Don't let anybody force you into a
relationship...if the person loves you, he/she
would wait.
You might be "feeling something" but feeling
doesn't mean you're ready....anybody can feel
anything but readiness is more important.
For a man the "READINESS" is deeper... Spiritual
readiness, Financial readiness and professional
readiness. It is easy to love when you are
established... IT TAKES FINANCE TO RUN
ROMANCE.
A way is enough for the wise